Choose Love Weddings

Choose Love Weddings is an officiant service in San Diego, California, run by married couple Amy Bouvin and Caroline Christian. They craft heartfelt ceremonies and meet with you privately to discuss your plans.

Why couples from the community choose them

The business is LGBTQ+-owned, and the owners offer discounted rates to members of the LGBTQ+ community. They describe inclusivity as a priority. Two officiants who are a couple themselves can bring a natural understanding of the questions you may be asking, from vow wording to who walks whom.

What you can expect

• A private consultation to discuss your vision and choose a ceremony package
• A ceremony that reflects the love you share
• Relationship coaching sessions to build a foundation for marriage
• Options from simple, no-frills ceremonies to larger celebrations

Choosing a ceremony style

Think about tone first. Some couples want a brief ceremony with vows and rings, while others want readings, music and family participation. Tell the officiants how long you expect the ceremony to last and how many guests you will have.

San Diego notes

San Diego has beaches, gardens, harbor venues and hilltop spots, each with its own rules. Public beach ceremonies may need a permit, and wind can carry voices away, so ask whether a microphone is used. Plan the ceremony time around the light and the tide.

Confirm the California marriage license process, including whether you want a public or confidential license, and who submits the signed form. Ask about a rehearsal, and send your vows or readings in advance so the officiants can plan the pacing.