Barn & Farm · Deighton, North Yorkshire
Deighton Lodge
Barn and farmhouse venue on three acres outside York, with a garden pagoda and on-site rooms
Deighton Lodge is a barn and farmhouse venue on York Road at Deighton, around four miles south of York. It sits on about three acres of farmland with landscaped gardens and a pond.
Why it suits LGBTQ+ couples
Deighton Lodge is a strong fit for couples who like to plan their own day. The venue is hired as a blank canvas, so you choose the caterer, the styling and the shape of the day. A small number of weddings take place each year, and several ceremony spaces let you pick an indoor or outdoor setting that suits you. Because the space is yours to style, the barn works for a relaxed rustic look or a more formal layout with round tables for up to 12 guests. The setting suits couples who enjoy designing the details together.
Ceremonies
The venue is licensed for civil ceremonies in three places: the large barn, a reception room with glass walls, and a garden pagoda for outdoor vows. The barn holds up to about 200 guests.
Receptions and food
The large pitched-roof barn seats up to about 200 guests for dinner and the evening party. Hire includes a self-catering kitchen, and you bring in the caterer of your choice. The venue holds an alcohol licence and has a bar. A smaller room with a glass front is suited to a more intimate meal or drinks.
Staying
A farmhouse on site has several bedrooms for guests, plus a bridal suite and a bridal parlour. Two rooms welcome pets, which suits couples who want a dog at the wedding. Ask the venue about dates, since only a limited number of weddings are hosted each year and popular weekends fill early.
Getting there and the area
The venue lies near the village of Escrick, at the end of a long private drive off the York Road. York has a mainline station with fast links to London, Leeds and Edinburgh, and the city centre is a short drive away. Free parking is available on site. Escrick and Selby are close for guests who want other places to eat or stay before the wedding.
Good to know
- You choose your own caterer.
- Pet friendly rooms are available.
- Free on-site parking is provided.
Frequently asked questions
Can we bring our own caterer?
Yes. Outside caterers are welcome, and the hire includes a self-catering kitchen.
Can we marry outdoors?
Yes. A garden pagoda is licensed for outdoor ceremonies.
Can guests stay on site?
Yes. The farmhouse has several bedrooms and a bridal suite.
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