Glen Oaks Big Sur & Big Sur Roadhouse

Glen Oaks Big Sur is a small hotel set among redwoods along the Big Sur River on Highway 1, in the heart of Big Sur, California. Alongside its rooms, cottages and cabins, it has a private forest grove for ceremonies and the Big Sur Roadhouse restaurant, with its patios and terrace, for receptions. It hosts elopements, micro weddings and weddings of up to 100 people.

Why it suits LGBTQ+ couples

The ceremony site is a private grove for your group, and guests can stay on the property, so the whole celebration can feel like a shared retreat in the forest. Options run from a couples-only elopement to a wedding with friends and family. It is a strong fit for couples who want an outdoor ceremony in nature with a small, close group around them.

Ceremonies

Ceremonies are held in a clearing in the redwoods beside the river, with light coming through the trees. True elopements are designed for the two of you alone, with a private exchange of vows and no guests. Micro weddings and weddings bring family and friends together under the redwoods, for up to 100 people including the couple.

Receptions and food

Receptions and rehearsal dinners take place at the Big Sur Roadhouse for up to 100 people. You can use the private outdoor patio, lit with fairy lights and surrounded by greenery and redwoods. You can also add the restaurant interior, with its fireplaces, and the front terrace, which has couches and outdoor fire pits. The Roadhouse serves simple, seasonal food during the day, so talk to the events team about plans for your menu.

Staying

Room blocks and group stays let your guests sleep on site. Accommodation includes updated historic hotel rooms at the Adobe Motor Lodge, the Oak Tree Cottages, cabins at The Redwood Grove and the Big Sur River Preserve.

Getting there and the area

Glen Oaks is on Highway 1, the coast road that links Big Sur with Carmel and Monterey to the north. Guests can explore hiking trails, the Big Sur River and redwood groves, along with local shops, galleries and spa services. Allow extra time for the drive, as the coast road is long and winding.

Good to know

• Weddings and receptions are for up to 100 people, including the couple.
• Couples-only elopements are offered.
• Guest room blocks are available on the property.