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Lauderdale House

Tudor-era house in Waterlow Park, Highgate, licensed for weddings for up to 120 guests.

At this venue Ceremony only Reception only Historic building In-house catering Seated meal facilities Dance floor

Lauderdale House is a historic house on Highgate Hill in north London, set at the edge of Waterlow Park. Its story begins in 1582, and over the centuries it has been a family home, a school and a hospital. Today it is a Grade II* listed arts venue, licensed for marriages and civil partnerships, with room for up to 120 guests.

Why it suits LGBTQ+ couples

Lauderdale House is a strong fit for couples who want history and greenery without leaving London. It is a manageable size, so a ceremony, dinner and dance can all happen in one building with your guests close at hand. You can bring your own flowers and decorations, which makes it easy to shape the look of the day around the two of you rather than a set template.

Ceremonies

Ceremonies take place in the Entrance Hall or the Long Gallery, which has fairy lights already fitted. Afterwards the terrace is the natural spot for confetti, and the brick alcove inside the house works well for portraits. Waterlow Park, with its terraced gardens and views over London, is right outside for photographs.

Receptions and food

Dinner is served in the Tudor galleries, and the arts spaces become the dance floor later on. Catering is handled by Pink Food, the in-house caterer, with dishes prepared fresh in the kitchen on site. At least two stewards are on duty to set up and clear down. Trestle and bistro tables, chairs, easels, a projector and screen, and a microphone with a small speaker are all available, and extra furniture and uplighting can be hired. Flowers, bunting and free-standing decorations are welcome.

Getting there and the area

The house sits on Highgate Hill, within walking distance of Archway Underground station on the Northern line, with buses running up and down the hill. Highgate Village, with its pubs and restaurants, is a short walk uphill, and Highgate Cemetery lies just beyond the park. Waterlow Park keeps daytime opening hours, so check timings if you want outdoor photographs late in the day.

Good to know

  • A lift and modern toilets were added in a 2017 renovation.
  • Pink Food is the in-house caterer.
  • The house holds up to 120 guests.
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Frequently asked questions

Can we have the ceremony and reception at Lauderdale House?

Yes. The house is licensed for ceremonies and hosts receptions too, for up to 120 guests.

Can we bring our own decorations?

Yes. Flowers, bunting and free-standing decorations are allowed, and furniture and uplighters can be hired.

Is the house accessible?

A lift was installed during the 2017 renovation, along with modern toilets.

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