Manor House · Des Moines, Iowa

Salisbury House & Gardens

A historic house with terraced gardens and a cobblestone courtyard for weddings in Des Moines, Iowa.

At this venue Outdoor space Historic building External catering allowed On-site parking

Salisbury House and Gardens is a historic house with grounds in Des Moines, Iowa. Couples can marry in the house, on the terrace lawns, in the gardens or in the Cobblestone Courtyard.

Why it suits LGBTQ+ couples

It is a strong fit for couples who want a grand, traditional setting that still feels personal. The venue answers the question of hosting same-sex couples directly in its own FAQ, with a clear yes, and it invites couples to share cultural traditions they want to include. You can use the house for a small, formal ceremony or the grounds for a larger party.

Ceremonies

Indoors, the Common Room, with its long English oak trestle table, is used for ceremonies. Outdoors, the terrace lawns and gardens can be tented. Getting ready spaces are provided. Micro weddings of up to 30 guests are possible, which suits an intimate elopement style day.

Receptions and food

Indoor events hold 100 guests or fewer all year. From May to October, outdoor events can host up to 250 guests comfortably. From November to April, private rentals must be held indoors with 100 guests or fewer, and in December the limit drops to 50 or 60 because of holiday decor. The house has no on-site catering. It lists preferred caterers, most of whom also provide bartending, and outside caterers and bar services are allowed for private rentals for an additional fee.

The grounds include grassy areas, terrace lawns and the cobblestone courtyard, and the indoor spaces include getting ready areas set aside for the wedding party. The venue also rents to social groups and business clients, which means the team has plenty of experience running events of different sizes and styles.

Getting there and the area

The house is on Tonawanda Drive in Des Moines. The main lot holds roughly 50 to 55 cars, and staff manage street parking for larger events. Carpooling, rideshare and hotel shuttles are encouraged.

Good to know

  • For weddings of 150 guests or more, security is hired through the venue.
  • Large outdoor events may need a city tenting permit.
  • Some business clients rent single rooms, so ask what is booked on your date.

Frequently asked questions

Is Salisbury House open to same-sex couples?

Yes. The venue states this plainly in its own FAQ.

Can we bring our own caterer?

Yes, for private rentals, for an additional fee. The venue also keeps a list of preferred caterers.

Can we marry here in winter?

Yes, but from November to April private events are held indoors, with 100 guests or fewer.

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