The Dudeist Ministers

The Dudeist Ministers are a team of wedding officiants serving Cincinnati and the surrounding area of southwest Ohio. They lead traditional weddings, elopements, handfastings and quick legal ceremonies, and they are known for themed and costumed weddings, where the officiants dress up to match.

Why they suit LGBTQ+ couples

The team offers a dedicated service for same-sex, transgender, non-binary and other LGBTQ+ couples, and describes its approach as affirming and inclusive. Each ceremony is written around the couple, with both partners involved in shaping it. This suits couples who want an officiant who will tell their story in their own words, whether the tone is formal, relaxed or playful.

What they offer

• Traditional wedding ceremonies
• LGBTQ+ wedding ceremonies with personalized scripts
• Elopements for small, simple weddings
• Sign-N-Go, a short legal ceremony for couples who do not want a full service
• Themed and costumed weddings
• Handfasting and other ceremonies

How they work

It starts with a consultation to talk through your plans. Your officiant then gets to know you, including how you met, the milestones you have shared and the feel you want for the day, and writes a ceremony to match. The style can be traditional, contemporary or something entirely your own, with custom vows and personal stories if you want them. Couples can choose the length and tone, and the officiant can help with decisions in the run-up to the wedding. For couples who only need the legal part, Sign-N-Go takes just a few minutes. The team also publishes guidance on getting a marriage license in Ohio and Kentucky.

Where they cover

The ministers are based on the east side of Cincinnati, near Milford, and work across the Cincinnati area, including towns such as Loveland. Ask about travel if your venue is further out.