Wedding Planners · Portland, Oregon

Don’t Mess With the Bride

Day-of coordination and planning in Portland, with staff from one to ten.

Don't Mess With the Bride is a wedding coordination and planning company in Portland, Oregon. It specializes in DIY couples who want some planning help along the way. It also offers support from engagement through to the end of the celebration.

Why they suit LGBTQ+ couples

The business is listed as LGBTQ+-owned on its business profile, so you are working with a team that understands LGBTQ+ couples from the inside. It is a strong fit for couples who want to hire an owner who shares their experience. The team offers both male and female event managers, so you can choose who you feel comfortable with.

What they offer

Services include day-of coordination, ceremony, reception and rehearsal dinner support, and planning for civil, eco-friendly, non-religious and religious weddings. The team describes a cool and collected, no-drama approach. An emergency kit holds a drill, extension cords, wire, rope, plug adaptors, a hammer, glue, duct tape and snacks.

How they work

You can hire as little as someone to keep you on schedule from rehearsal to toasts. You can also hire a larger crew, with staff numbers from one to ten. The team can turn a room from ceremony to reception in less than an hour. If you want to save on budget, they will direct friends who volunteer to help with the heavy lifting and the fine detail.

Where they work

The company is based in Portland, Oregon. Ask about coverage beyond the city when you inquire.

Frequently asked questions

Can I hire help for only the wedding day?

Yes. Day-of coordination is a listed service. The team can keep you on schedule from your rehearsal through to the toasts.

How large is the team that works at a wedding?

The business offers staff from one to ten people, depending on how much support you need.

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