Nuptials by Karen

Nuptials by Karen is a wedding officiant business in Salinas, California, run by Karen Durant. Karen describes herself as an ordained lesbian and specializes in LGBTQ+ weddings.

Where this officiant fits

Karen is LGBTQ+-owned and puts it plainly: your day is about the two of you. The ceremony is built around you, not a standard script, which is what many same-sex couples want from the person who marries them.

Ceremony types

• Weddings
• Elopements
• Commitment ceremonies
• Vow renewals

Style and wording

Ceremonies can be non-religious with no mention of God, Christian, interfaith, non-denominational or another style you choose. If you are writing vows, Karen can help with them. Meeting beforehand is part of the process, so you can talk through what feels meaningful.

What is included and what varies

License handling is included. Travel beyond about 25 miles carries a fee that varies, and a rehearsal fee varies by location and time. Ask for these details in writing when you request a quote.

Planning your ceremony

Decide how long the ceremony should be, who will take part and whether you want a rehearsal. A short, personal ceremony works well for an elopement, while a longer one can hold readings and rituals. Bring any questions about California license requirements to the first meeting.

Choosing the right officiant

Meet or call before you decide, and ask how Karen would shape the ceremony and what she needs from you. Share the venue, the date and any readings you like. A rehearsal is optional but useful for larger wedding parties, so decide early whether you want one.