Weddings in the Gunks

Weddings in the Gunks is the wedding officiant business of Terence P. Ward, based in New Paltz in the Hudson Valley of New York. He writes and leads ceremonies built around what matters to each couple.

Why he suits LGBTQ+ couples

He suits couples who want a ceremony that is theirs rather than a script. His approach is to listen closely, then shape a ritual from your values, your families and your culture. That flexibility is a good match for couples whose weddings do not follow a traditional pattern.

What he offers

• Signing of legal recognition documents
• Ceremonies that solemnize or celebrate a commitment before family and friends
• Custom rituals drawn from family, cultural or personal traditions
• Nontraditional ceremonies

How he works

He practices deep listening and draws on decades of experience as a journalist and writer to help you tell the story of your day. Rituals can come from your own traditions or from ideas that friends have used. Elements need to be legal, consented to and physically feasible. He has led handfastings, ring blessings and other personal rituals.

Where he covers

He is based in New Paltz and is available to travel, so ask about your venue. A travel charge may apply for venues further from New Paltz, so raise this early when you enquire.